Wednesday, September 28, 2011

"I love my haters"

Huh?  No.  We love our frieeeeeends.  This absurd statement is a defeatist move much like the violent act of jealousy itself.  Jealousy is displaced anger at ourselves for not living up to our own standards.  I can handle this.  Can you?  Yes you can.  Accepting that you want more will move you naturally away from impotent and destructive jealousy toward action.  Here is a gauge.  If jealousy is more than a fleeting feeling, then it is a false emotion.  Not hate of another but... A fear of work.  Not literal employment.  I am a person that believes the phrase "'good job' is an oxymoron."  Thanks Dad for that little gem.  Screw the establishment, etc.  But I believe there is work that one has do to feel whole.   Gripe about society but not societal pressure.  We get it, it sucks.  A lot.  But it's not acknowledging your own standards that will get you.  What would really make you happier or more peaceful, RIGHT NOW?   Do it.  If it involves another person/persons changing.  Good luck with that.  But if it just involves a little more work.  Do it.  If you're feeling envious or inadequate for a prolonged amount of time.  Do something.  Address it.  Don't get all passive aggressive or aggressive aggressive.  And don't be a hater and add your own fear to the looming fear of failure that plagues the world.  This may be controversial but, TRY HARD!  Aim high.

Disclaimer: Fro(know)itall is tongue in cheek.

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